The Perfect Solution

Several years ago, Rock and I went to our favorite spa in the world: It was five days and four nights in Catalina, Arizona filled with healing desert air, massages, whole, organic foods cooked to order, yoga of every variety, and rest. It was also a place where I...

The Secret to a Pleasurable Life

Life is more pleasurable for the person who is surrendered. But surrender doesn’t sound like as much fun as a vacation in Hawaii, so people book tickets there, instead of realizing that the aloha spirit isn’t about the place you go, but the capacity you...

You Can’t Please Everyone

You can’t go around pleasing everyone. The people who are going to be easily offended by you were already working up to that crescendo in their life way before you entered the scene of their crime. They were drama-filled cutting people off needing people to say...

What Love Doesn’t Need

If someone needs you to agree with them on every detail of their life in order for them to feel loved, then, you’re not really in a relationship you’re in a cult. If you can’t feel or believe differently without being punished in return, then,...