The Secret to a Pleasurable Life

Life is more pleasurable for the person who is surrendered. But surrender doesn’t sound like as much fun as a vacation in Hawaii, so people book tickets there, instead of realizing that the aloha spirit isn’t about the place you go, but the capacity you...

You Can’t Please Everyone

You can’t go around pleasing everyone. The people who are going to be easily offended by you were already working up to that crescendo in their life way before you entered the scene of their crime. They were drama-filled cutting people off needing people to say...

What Love Doesn’t Need

If someone needs you to agree with them on every detail of their life in order for them to feel loved, then, you’re not really in a relationship you’re in a cult. If you can’t feel or believe differently without being punished in return, then,...

A Turn-Around Ta-Ta Moment

Okay, wow.  I looked at my last post and it was a month ago. Sorry about being MIA. I’ve been finishing a new book due out before the end of October and I’ve been flattening my butt with writing that. I’m excited — more details coming soon....